Larry King Interview 2001
LARRY
KING,
HOST:
Tonight,
legendary
music
superstar
Sir
Elton
John.
Forget
paying
scalpers,
because
you've
got
a
front
row
seat
for
free.
Sir
Elton
John,
in-depth
conversation.
Plus,
an
incredible
live
performance.
All
next
on
LARRY
KING
WEEKEND.
Thanks
for
joining
us.
Sir
Elton
John
is
one
of
the
great
music
stars
of
any
time.
Gold
albums.
Platinum.
He's
won
six
Grammys.
Has
a
new
album
out
called
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast."
That
is
a
heck
of
a
resume.
He
is
one
of
the
best
names
in
the
business.
We
started
our
recent
interview
by
asking
how
a
man
named
Reginald
Dwight
became
Elton
John.
SIR
ELTON
JOHN,
MUSICIAN:
Well,
I
was
making
a
record,
and
I
had
to
choose
a
name,
because
they
said,
you
know,
you
can't
make
a
record
under
the
name
of
Reg
Dwight,
because
it's
never
going
to
--
you
know,
it's
not
attractive
enough.
And
I
agreed
with
that,
and
I
couldn't
wait
to
change
my
name
anyway,
because
I'm
not
too
fond
of
the
name
of
Reginald.
It's
a
very
kind
of
'50s
English
name.
So
I
picked
Elton
because
there
wasn't
--
nobody
seemed
to
have
the
name
Elton.
And
I
picked
John
to
go
with
it.
And
it
was
--
it
was
done
on
a
bus
going
from
London
Heathrow
back
into
the
city.
And
it
was
done
very
quickly.
So
I
said,
oh,
Elton
John.
That's
fine.
KING:
It'll
never
work
for
you.
JOHN:
No
it
won't,
it
won't.
KING:
The
friendship
with
Princess
Di,
which
the
world
knows
about,
how
did
that
begin?
When
was
the
first
time
you
met
her?
JOHN:
I
met
her
at
Prince
Andrew's
21st
birthday
party
at
Windsor
Castle,
in
which
I
was
playing.
I
was
doing
the
music,
playing
the
concert
with
Ray
Cooper,
who
was
my
percussion
player.
And
it
was
very
nerve-wracking.
I
was
sitting
on
the
stage
looking
at
all
these
empty
gold
chairs,
and
then
all
of
the
royal
family
kind
of
came
in
and
filled
them
up.
And
I
played,
and
I
came
down.
I
was
very
relieved
when
it
was
over.
And
the
first
person
I
saw
was
Lady
Diana
Spencer,
actually
was
at
the
time.
And
it
was
in
an
empty
ballroom
with
a
bounce
(ph)
band.
And
she
said,
would
you
like
to
dance?
And
we
danced
the
Charleston
--
or
tried
to
dance
the
Charleston.
And
we
had
a
great
time
and
great
fun,
and
she
wrote
me
a
beautiful
letter
afterwards
saying
how
nice
it
was,
and
to
meet
me,
blah
blah
blah.
And...
KING:
And
then
it
endured?
JOHN:
It
endured,
absolutely.
We
--
ironically,
we
had
a
kind
of
falling
out
just
before
--
well,
about
a
year
before
she
died,
just
over
something,
you
know,
we
were
both
pretty
stubborn.
It
was
one
of
her
charity
things
that
I'd
organized,
and
she
pulled
out
of
it.
And
I
wasn't
too
happy,
and
I
let
her
know
that.
And
then
she
wrote
me
a
very
terse
letter.
And
it
was
only
really
when
Gianni
Versace
was
murdered
that
we
both
got
on
the
phone
to
each
other
and
said,
this
is
so
stupid.
We
haven't
talked,
you
know.
It's
one
of
those
things
that
friends
sometimes
do.
You
know,
they're
too
proud
to
pick
up
the
phone.
And
it
was
just
due
to
a
tragic
event
like
Johnny's
murder
that
brought
us...
KING:
Who...
JOHN:
...
back
together
again?
KING:
Who
at
that
funeral
was
propping
up
who?
JOHN:
She
was
propping
me
up.
It
wasn't
really
the
funeral,
but
it
was
a
memorial
service.
And
I
was
--
I
was
a
mess.
Johnny
was
my
best,
one
of
my
best
friends.
I
loved
him
dearly,
as
did
Diana.
And
there
was
a
very
famous
scene
in,
with
--
I'm
--
got
a
bowed
head.
Actually,
she
wasn't
really
propping
me
up.
I
had
a
roll
of
mints,
and
I
was
asking
her
if
she'd
like
a
mint.
And
she
said
yes.
So
we've
both
got
our
head
bowed.
But
I
was,
I
was
very
upset.
I
was
crying,
and
she
was
incredibly
supportive,
and
incredibly
--
those
years
of
being
stoic
and
being
kind
of
cool
in
the...
KING:
Well...
JOHN:
...
in
the
public
eye
served
her
very
well
at
that
occasion.
It
didn't
serve
me
very
well
because
I
was
a
complete
mess.
Henceforth,
when
I
had
to
play
at
her
funeral,
I
had
to
--
could
have
--
get
some
of
her
stoicness
(sic)
and
remain
calm
and
collected
while
I
was
singing
about
her,
which
was
the
most
surreal
summer
I've
ever
spent
in
my
life.
Six...
KING:
One
would
imagine.
JOHN:
Yeah.
KING:
Yeah.
We'll
be
right
back
with
Sir
Elton
John.
He's
touring
now
with
Billy
Joel.
His
new
album
is
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast."
He
has
been
a
legendary
star
for
well
over
30
years.
You're
watching
LARRY
KING
LIVE.
We'll
be
right
back.
KING:
We're
back
with
Sir
Elton
John,
comes
to
us
from
his
home
town
--
American
home
town
--
of
Atlanta,
Georgia.
Was
your
relationship
with
Versace
more
than
friendship?
Was
it
romantic?
JOHN:
No,
it
wasn't
at
all.
I
mean,
Johnny
had
a
long-time
companion,
Antonio
D'Amico.
And
I
was
friends
with
both
of
them.
It
was,
certainly
wasn't
sexual.
It
was
just
a
real
kind
of
a
--
he
was
like
a
brother,
really.
We
were
both
very
much
the
same.
We
were
both
very
impulsive.
We
both
loved
life.
We
both
loved
shopping.
We
both
had
a
love
of
clothes,
obviously,
because
he
was
the
designer
that
I
kind
of
wore
forever
and
ever.
I
mean,
I
haven't
really
switched
allegiances
since.
Even
since
his
death
I've,
you
know,
I
still
wear
Versace
a
lot.
And,
no,
he
was
just
the
brother
I
never
had.
And
we
had
such
a
great
time
together.
KING:
He
was
older
or
younger?
JOHN:
He
was
the
same,
really,
about
the
same
age,
yeah.
KING:
Now
the
Di
funeral.
What
emotionally
were
you
going
through?
You
were
closer
to
Versace,
were
you
not?
JOHN:
Yes,
because
I
used
to
speak
to
Gianni
on
practically
a
daily
basis,
or,
you
know,
at
least
twice
or
two
or
three
times
a
week.
Whereas...
KING:
First,
where
were
you
the
night
Lady
Di
had
the
accident?
JOHN:
I
was
in
Nice
with
my
partner
David.
And
we
woke
up
the
next
morning
to
a
fax
from
one
of
our
friends
saying,
so
sad
to
hear
about
the
tragic
news.
And
we'd
gone
to
bed
early
that
night.
And
so
we
switched
on
CNN,
and
there
was
the
news
which
we
could
hardly
believe.
I
mean,
we
were
in
total
shock,
I
mean,
as
was
everybody.
But,
so,
I
mean,
because
it
was
six
weeks,
literally,
after
Johnny
was
murdered,
it
seemed
the
most
bizarre
string
of
events.
And
you
had
to
pinch
yourself.
We
kept
looking
and
saying,
this
just
can't
be
true.
This
can't
be
true.
KING:
"Candle
in
the
Wind,"
which
you
performed
at
the
funeral
--
why
that
song?
JOHN:
Well,
when
I
was
initially
approached
to
play
at
the
funeral,
which
is,
you
know,
kind
of
like
a
first
at
one
of
these
state
occasions
--
usually
they're
very,
they're
very
meticulous
in
what
they
have
as
far
as
music.
And
it's
usually
classical
music,
and
sacred
music,
which
it
should
be.
And
the
music
chosen
for
her
funeral
was
beautiful.
But
when
I
was
asked
--
approached
by
Richard
Branson,
if
I
would
be
interested
in
singing
at
her
funeral,
I
said
yes,
but
what?
Should
I
write
something
new?
Should
I
--
I
didn't
know
what
to
do.
And
having
watched
the
news
and
seeing
the
people
lining
up
outside
Saint
James'
palace,
signing
the
books
of
condolence
and
then
writing
passages
from
the
original
song,
"Candle
in
the
Wind,"
we
came
up
with
the
idea
of
maybe
--
Bernie
came
up
with
the
idea
--
of
maybe
writing
a
completely
different
lyric,
which
would
--
appertaining
to
her,
instead
of
using
the
Marilyn
Monroe
homage,
which
would
have
been
completely
inappropriate,
obviously.
So
we
decided
to,
as
quick
as
we
can,
or
as
quick
as
we
could,
rewrite
"Candle
in
the
Wind"...
KING:
And...
JOHN:
...
referring
to
Princess
Diana.
KING:
You
have
said
you'll
not
perform
it
again
unless
asked
by
her
children.
Is
that
true?
JOHN:
Yeah,
I
mean
I
--
to
be
honest
with
you,
I
didn't
sing
"Candle
in
the
Wind"
for
a
couple
of
years
afterwards,
the
Marilyn
Monroe
version,
because
I
just
thought
it
was
too
close
and
inappropriate.
And
now
I
do.
But
I
--
the
Diana
version,
I
really
don't
think
I'll
ever
sing
again.
KING:
What
is
it
like
to
sing
at
a
funeral?
JOHN:
Well,
I'd
been
--
Sting
and
I
actually
sang
at
Gianni's
memorial
service.
We
sang
the
23rd
Psalm,
the
Lord
is
my
shepherd.
But
this
one
was
the
biggie.
I
mean,
you
know,
all
eyes
were
on
you.
KING:
All
the
world.
JOHN:
All
the
world.
And
also
being,
you
know,
(UNINTELLIGIBLE)
as
a
commercial,
pop
singer
to
be
asked
to
do
this
was
kind
of
revolutionary.
And
so
when
I
did
the
rehearsal
the
day
before,
I
insisted
on
a
teleprompter,
because
I
thought,
if
I
sing
this,
and
I
sing
"Goodbye
Norma
Jean,"
because
I
didn't
know
what
kind
of
state
I
was
going
to
be
in
on
the
day
of
the
actual
funeral.
I
just
thought,
I've
got
to
get
this
right.
And
it
was
an
amazing
thing.
I
mean,
it
was
--
I
had
to
call
on
all
my
kind
of
years
of
professionalism,
and
all
my
experience,
because
I
didn't
want
to
break
down
and
become
emotional.
I
thought
that
was
--
I
was
doing
the
job
of
making
everybody
else
feel
emotional.
And
if
I
started
to
be
emotional,
I
thought
that
would
make
it
--
it
would
denigrate
the
occasion,
and
it
would
make
it
more
morguish
than
it
maybe
already
was,
you
know.
KING:
Did
you
know,
Sir
Elton,
of
all
her
problems?
JOHN:
Yes,
I
did.
We
were
both
bulimic.
I
was
also
a
bulimic.
We
exchanged
letters
about
things
like
that.
I
think
she
had
a
lot
of
other
problems.
She
had
a
lot
of
trust
problems
with
people.
I
think
she,
you
know,
because
living
in
the
environment
where
you've
got
courtiers
in
the
palace.
You
don't
know
whose
side
they're
on.
And
I
think
--
and
that
makes
you
really,
really
paranoid.
And
--
and,
you
know,
it
used
to
get
her
down
tremendously.
And
I
think
living
that
kind
of
life
and
not
knowing
who
your
friends
are
sometimes
is,
you
know,
is
kind
of
medieval
in
a
way.
KING:
Why
did
you
like
her
so
much?
JOHN:
I
liked
her
compassion,
that
she
was
so
much
fun.
I
remember
throwing
a
party
at
my
house
in
Windsor
with
my
partner
David.
And
we
threw
it
for
Jeffrey
Katzenberg
and
his
wife
Marilyn.
And
we
invited
Princess
Diana
who
came,
Sylvester
Stallone,
Richard
Gere,
George
Michael
--
a
lot
of
people
came.
And,
you
know,
it
was
a
really
wonderful
evening.
And
my
recollections
of
Princess
Diana
just
curled
up
on
the
floor
talking
to
Richard
Gere,
and
she
was
very
--
she
was
just
really
easy
to
deal
with
as
far
as
protocol
went.
She
made
you
completely
feel
at
ease,
or
anybody
else
in
the
room.
There
wasn't
a
stiffness
or
an
awkwardness,
which
there
can
be
sometimes
with
other
members
of
the
royal
family,
because
you're
so
aware
of
protocol.
She
was
funny.
She
was,
you
know,
she
was...
KING:
Yeah.
JOHN:
...
and
compassionate.
I
mean,
you
know,
and
I
just
felt
very
much
--
I
had
a
lot
of
things
in
common
with
her,
I
thought,
and
especially
her
AIDS
crusading
and...
KING:
Are
you,
are
you
concerned
about
young
Harry?
JOHN:
I'm
not
really
concerned.
I
think
his
father
did
exactly
the
right
thing,
and
he
took,
you
know,
he
said
listen.
I
think
he
was
--
he
handled
it
very,
very
well.
I
mean,
it's
part
of
being
young
these
days.
And,
you
know,
if
you
think
your
kids
aren't
going
to
try
drugs
sooner
or
later,
you're
living
in
(UNINTELLIGIBLE)
land.
They're
so
available
and,
you
know,
it's
common
knowledge.
And,
you
know,
it's
good
that
he
did
what
he
did
by
taking
to
a
kind
of
treatment
center
and
saying,
listen,
if
you
carry
on
like
this,
this
is
what
can
happen.
And,
you
know,
he'll
keep
a
closer
eye
on
him,
I'm
sure.
But
it's
just
--
it's
part
of
how
we
live
nowadays.
KING:
From
your
own
standpoint,
how
have
you
dealt
with
what
might
be
called
the
glare,
the
spotlight,
the
tabloids,
being
in
them
a
lot,
stories?
How
do
you
deal
with
that?
JOHN:
Well,
I've
had
my
fair
share
in
Britain
of
battling
the
tabloids.
I've
successfully
sued
the
"Sun"
newspaper,
and
got
a
front
page
apology
in
the
same
type
face,
but
it
took
a
year-and-a-half
of
my
life
to
do
that,
and
it
was
very,
very
uncomfortable.
It
was
very,
very
upsetting.
The
stories
they
were
printing
were
upsetting,
and
--
but
I
was
rich
enough
and
fortunate
enough
to
be
wealthy
enough
to
fight
them.
I
mean,
in
some
cases
with
libel
laws,
you
know,
they
can
write
things
about
people
who
have
no
course
of
action,
because
they
can't
afford
to
take
legal
action
against
them.
I've
also
sued
the
"Sunday
Mirror."
It's
been
a
national
pastime
for
me
in
England.
I've...
KING:
But
do
you
deal
with
it
well
emotionally?
JOHN:
Not
sometimes,
no.
It
still
hurts.
I
have
a
much
better
relationship
with
the
press
than
I
did,
I
think
because
I
stood
my
ground.
They
respected
that
and
--
because
I've
been
successful.
And
I
think,
you
know,
I
think
as
you
get
older
you
mature
a
little
bit.
And
--
but,
you
know,
when
you
--
I
don't
mind
people's
opinions
of
you.
You
know,
that's
fair
game.
You're
a
public
figure.
People
can
have
an
opinion.
They
have
a
right
to
write
what
they
think.
And
that's
--
I
can
deal
with
that.
It's
when
they
write
something
that's
completely
untrue.
And
if
you're
a
journalist,
surely
the
thing
that
you
should
be
writing
is
the
truth,
or
at
least
checking
your
facts.
And
that's
what
drives
me
crazy.
KING:
We'll
be
right
back
with
more
of
Sir
Elton
John.
Don't
forget,
he'll
perform
for
us
before
this
hour
is
over.
His
new
album
is
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast."
And
he's
touring
with
Billy
Jewel
(ph)
--
Billy
Joel
--
and
that's
not
a
bad
cornella
(ph).
We'll
be
right
back.
KING:
We're
back
with
Sir
Elton
John.
He's
in
Atlanta,
we're
in
Los
Angeles.
Your
heart
situation.
I
never
get
personal
on
this
show,
but
I
have
had
quintuple
bypass,
and
have
had
a
heart
attack.
You
didn't
have
any
of
those,
right?
JOHN:
No.
I
just
had
a
--
I
was
in
the
south
of
France
at
my
house.
And
I
was
going
to
be
--
I
was
getting
on
a
plane
going
to
play
at
a
friend's
wedding,
and
I
just
felt
very,
very
--
really
sick,
and
very,
very
faint.
And
they
had
to
get
an
ambulance
and
take
me
to
a
hospital.
And
I
got
checked
out,
and
they
sent
me
back
to
England.
And
I
had
three
days
of
tests,
and
one
of
them
involved
wiring
a
tape
recorder
up
to
me
for
24
hours.
And
they
didn't
seem
to
find
anything.
And
I
went
to
France,
and
I
was
on
the
tennis
court
when
David,
my
partner,
came
down
and
said,
"Elton,
they'd
rather
you
not
play
tennis."
And
I
said,
"why
is
that?"
And
they
said,
"well,
you've
got
to
back.
They've
found
something
wrong,
that
they
want
to
do
with
your
heart."
And
I
just
went
nuts.
I
thought,
oh,
great.
And
I
talked
to
my
doctor,
and
I
must
admit,
you
know,
I'm
sometimes
quite
renowned
for
my
outbursts
and
I
was
just
very
frustrated,
maybe
a
little
frightened.
But
I
--
at
--
the
upshot
was,
I
went
back
and
he
said,
"listen,
all
you've
got
to
do
is
have
this
pacemaker
put
in."
It
took
an
hour-and-a-half.
I
was
back
in
France
within
36
hours,
recovering.
And
it's
been
fine.
KING:
So
you've
had
the
pacemaker
for
how
long
now?
JOHN:
For
a
couple
of
years.
My
grandmother
had
one,
as
it
was,
so...
KING:
Do
you
feel
it?
JOHN:
Yeah,
you
can
feel
the
bump
in
my
chest,
absolutely.
KING:
Do
you
know
when
it's
working?
I
mean,
do
you
know
when
it
counteracts
something?
Or
nothing?
JOHN:
No.
You
don't
feel
that
at
all.
I
mean,
I
go
in
and
have
it
--
every
--
it's
kind
of
like
being
the
bionic
man
or
the
bionic
woman.
You
go
in
there,
and
they
put
this
thing
on
you,
and
all
the
information
goes
into
a
computer,
and
it
tells
you
how
much
they've
used,
how...
KING:
But
it...
JOHN:
...
how
much
it's
used
it...
KING:
It's
a
pacemaker.
It's
not
a
defibrillator
like
Vice
President
Cheney
has.
JOHN:
I
don't
think
so.
No,
it's
just
a
--
it's
common.
It's
a
very
common
thing
to
have.
KING:
All
right.
How
about
the
reports
of
Sir
Elton
John
and
excess?
JOHN:
Yeah...
KING:
Houses,
cars,
furs,
anything
goes.
True?
JOHN:
I
always
liked
spending
my
money,
even
when
I
was
a
kid,
when
I
had
a
paper
round
--
or
paper
route,
as
they
call
it
over
here.
I
used
to
get
my
money
at
the
end
of
the
week,
buy
my
mum
something,
or
buy
a
record,
and
that
was
it.
I'm
a
very
wealthy
man.
I
have
a
lot
of
money
stashed
away,
but
I
do
live
my
life
from
day
to
day.
And
I
think,
with
Johnny
being
murdered
and
seeing
so
many
things
happen
in
the
last
few
years
--
yeah,
I
have
homes
in
Atlanta,
London,
Windsor,
and
Nice,
and
now
in
Venice
in
Italy.
And
I
love
collecting
art.
I've
got
a
great
collection
of
photography.
I
spend
my
money
but
I
don't,
you
know,
I
do
--
I'm
a
lavish
kind
of
guy,
and
that's
the
way
I
am.
KING:
But
you
also
give
of
your
time
and
money,
do
you
not?
JOHN:
Yeah.
I'm
very
generous.
I
hope
I'm
very
generous.
The
whole
point
of
being
in
this
business
and
being
blessed
and
being
successful
is
that
you're
able
to
do
things
for
your
friends
or
your
family,
which
means
that
they
can
have
something
special
in
their
lives,
too.
And
I,
you
know,
I'm
a
--
quite
a
generous
man.
KING:
What
about,
there
were
some
reports
that
you
had
financial
problems?
JOHN:
There
were
some
--
yeah,
that
was
some
reports,
when
I
left
--
parted
company
--
with
my
ex-manager,
Mr.
John
Reid,
and
it
led
to
a
lawsuit
against
Price
Waterhouse
in
England,
which
is
still
going
on.
It's
gone
to
the
court
of
appeal
and
it
will
be
heard
in
June.
There
were
reports
that,
you
know,
that
I
was
short
of
cash
and
blah
blah
blah.
And
there
was
a,
you
know,
having
gone
through
the
books
and
looked
at
what
was
happening,
my
instincts
were
right.
I
called
my
lawyer
in
and
said,
I
don't
there's,
you
know,
the
money's
going
where
it
should
be.
And
we
were
proved
right.
And
consequently
we
parted
ways.
I
have
a
new
management
team.
I
have
my
own
office
now.
I
kind
of
run
my
own
affairs.
And
there
was
a,
you
know,
there
was
a
scare.
It
was
like,
where
has
all
this
money
gone?
And,
you
know,
I'm
not
--
I've
only
been
interested
in
the
artistic
side
of
life.
And
I
trusted
someone
to
look
after
me
on
the
business
side
of
life.
And
that
went
on
for
27
years.
And
it
went
on
for
27
years
too
long
without
me
taking
an
interest.
And
I'm
afraid,
in
this
day
and
age,
trust,
which
I
count
so,
you
know,
I
love
loyalty.
I
love
trust.
And
that
was
one
of
the
biggest
blows
to
me,
when
that
parting
happened,
because,
you
know,
when
someone's
been
with
you
for
27
years,
it's
hard
to
say
good-bye.
But
it...
KING:
Yeah.
JOHN:...
you
know,
it
was
a
necessity.
KING:
And
it's
painful.
JOHN:
It's
very
painful.
It's
upsetting.
It
wasn't
--
it
wasn't
about
the
money
or
anything
like
that.
It
was
about
the
trust.
KING:
Yeah.
Who
do
you
like,
Elton?
What
male
vocalist
flips
you
today?
JOHN:
Well,
I'm
a
huge
fan
of
Ryan
Adams,
who's
from
North
Carolina.
And
he's
beginning
to
break
really
quite
big.
He's
had
an
album
out
called
"Heartbreaker,"
which
was
one
of
the
big
influences
that
made
me
to
make
this
album,
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast,"
much
simpler
and
much
more
back-to-basics.
KING:
And
what
female
artist?
JOHN:
God,
female
artists.
There's
so
many
of
them.
India
Arie
has
bee
nominated
for
a
lot
of
Grammies.
And
she's
from
Georgia,
too.
And
I
think
she's
brilliant.
KING:
Boy,
you're
really
into
the
South.
JOHN:
Yeah.
But,
I
mean,
there
are
so
many.
I
mean,
Sting
is
one
of
my
great
buddies
and
I
love
him
to
death.
You
know,
I
love
--
there's
so
much
good
music.
I
mean,
there's
Tony
--
from
Tony
Bennett
down
to
Sting,
down
to
this
Ryan
Adams
guy.
KING:
You
like
Britney
Spears?
JOHN:
I
do
like
Britney
Spears.
I
think
she's
cute.
I
think
she's
fun.
And
I
like
her
records.
You
know,
I'm
not
a
pop
snob
whatsoever.
I
think
she
makes
great
pop
records.
KING:
We'll
take
a
break,
we'll
be
back
with
more
of
Sir
Elton
John.
Don't
forget,
music
is
coming.
The
new
album
is
"Songs
from
the
West
Coast."
Don't
go
away.
KING:
We're
back
with
Sir
Elton
John
in
a
conversation
about
the
life
and
times
of
this
extraordinary
talent.
You
battled
drug
addiction
and
alcoholism,
bulimia.
How
did
you
get
through
those
hurdles?
How
--
you
know,
we
--
when
you
hear
about
it,
you
read
about
getting
clean,
going
from
being
unsober
to
being
sober.
What
is
that
process
like?
JOHN:
It's
really,
I
mean,
it
took
me
16
years
of
drug
addiction
and
alcoholism
to
actually
have
the
humility
to
say,
"I
need
help."
Because,
I
figured
that,
because
I
was
a
successful
man,
I
was
wealthy,
I
was,
you
know,
seemingly
intelligent
--
even
that
I
am
not
intelligent
enough
to
ask
for
help.
It
took
me
16
years
to
say
those
three
words
--
I
need
help.
As
soon
as
I
said
those
words,
I
knew
that
I
was
going
to
get
better,
and
I
was
determined
to
get
better.
But
it
was
just
a
relief
to
be
able
to
say
those.
My
pride
was
killing
me.
It's
--
you
think
you
don't
have
a
problem.
And
then
you
think,
if
I
do
have
a
problem,
and
I'd
stop
for
a
while,
and
then...
KING:
What...
JOHN:
...
when
I
went
back
to
it,
it
got
worse.
KING:
What
took
16
years?
JOHN:
It's
16
years
of
being
able
to
say,
I've
got
a
problem
here.
And
it
was
a
friend
of
mine,
a
relationship
that
I
was
having
with
someone
in
Atlanta
who
was
the
catalyst
for
me
getting
sober,
who
actually
went
into
a
treatment
center
first,
which
I
was
very
angry
about,
because,
hey,
it
was
like
telling
me
that
I
had
a
problem
as
well,
which
of
course
I
did.
And
I
think,
when
I
was
with
the
Ryan
White
family
in
Indianapolis
when
Ryan
died...
KING:
Yeah.
JOHN:
...
and
I
played
the
funeral,
and
I
was
probably
at
the
height
of
my
unhappiness.
If
you
look
back
at
footage
of
me
there,
I
looked
like
a
75-year-old
white-haired
man,
about
300-pound
man
playing
the
piano.
And
I
was
really
ashamed
of
myself.
And
as
soon
as
I
got
my
courage
to
say
I
need
help,
and
I
went
to
a
facility
in
Chicago,
which
was
excellent
--
it
was
a
hospital.
It
wasn't
really
like
a
treatment
center,
not
like
one
of
the
posh
ones
anyway,
which
is
not
what
I
needed.
I
needed
just
to,
you
know,
to
share
my
room,
my
small
room
with
someone.
To
--
I
wasn't
ashamed
about
going
in
and
talking
about
my
drug
addiction.
I
was
more
ashamed
that
I
couldn't
work
the
washing
machine
than
the
fact
that
I
was
taking
drugs.
And
I've
been
sober
now
and
clean
for
11
years.
And
it
was
the
best
thing
I
ever
did.
But,
you
know,
those
three
words
--
I
need
help.
If
only
I'd
said
them
earlier.
KING:
Was
that
tougher
than
saying,
coming
out
of
the
closet
and
saying,
I
am
gay.
JOHN:
Yeah,
absolutely.
Because,
you
know,
you
think
you
know
everything.
And
you
think,
you
know,
I
can
fix
this.
I
can
fix
this.
And
of
course,
it
got
worse
and
worse
and
worse.
And
that
wasn't
a
problem
coming
out
of
the
closet
at
all.
My
parents
accepted
it.
I
had,
you
know,
I
was
very
lucky
in
that
respect.
My
family
were
very
accepting.
I'm
in
an
industry
where
people
--
it's
not
unusual
for
people
to
be
gay
or
whatever.
But
actually,
my
drug
addiction
thing,
I
was
so
stubborn.
And
I
regret
that,
but
to
hell,
I've
been
sober
11
years,
now,
so,
whatever.
KING:
Does
--
as
a
gay
person
who
before
having
--
you
have
a
permanent
relationship
now,
do
you
not?
JOHN:
Yeah.
I
have
been
with
David
Furnish
for
eight
years,
now.
KING:
OK.
Before
that,
when
a
gay
person
sees
the
AIDS
thing...
JOHN:
Yeah.
KING:
...
do
you
count
yourself
lucky
"I
didn't
get
this?"
JOHN:
Absolutely.
I
mean,
When
you
take
a
drink
and
when
you
take
a
drug,
your
whole
thinking
changes
immediately.
And
you
do
things
that
you
normally
wouldn't
do
if
you
were
sober.
And
so,
I
came
out
of
this
whole
situation
HIV
negative.
And
it
was
one
of
the
reasons
why,
that
prompted
me
to
start
the
Elton
John
AIDS
Foundation,
is
because
I
felt,
God,
you've
been
so
lucky
that
you
haven't
got
this.
So
many
of
your
friends
are
dying
or
have
died
because
they've
done
the
same
thing
as
you,
but
you
just
played
Russian
roulette
and
you
just
didn't
get
the
bullet
in
your
head.
So,
I
said,
you
know,
I've
been
given
another
chance.
I've
got
to
do
something
about
this.
I've
got
to
do
something
to
make
up
for
all
those
self-absorbed
and
selfish
years
when
I
just,
you
know,
was
taking
drugs,
sitting
in
my
room,
doing
bad
things,
whatever.
KING:
Do
you
know
--
do
you
think
that
the
AIDS
now
gets
played
down?
That
we
hear
much
less
about
it?
JOHN:
Well,
I
think
you
do.
There
are
so
many
other
issues
that,
you
know,
people
are
--
breast
cancer,
which
I'm
also
very
involved
in
and
raising
money
for.
The
things
that
happened
on
September
the
11th
were
so
shocking,
that
people's
attention
gets
put
away
from,
you
know,
deserving
causes
everywhere.
But
I
think
the
AIDS
thing
--
I
think,
because
of
the
medicine
that's
available
now,
and
the
treatments
available
that
prolongs
people's
lives,
thank
goodness,
that
a
younger
--
the
younger
people
now
are
beginning
to
say,
well,
you
know
what?
If
I
have
unsafe
sex,
it
doesn't
really
matter
because
there's
a
cure.
But
there
isn't
a
cure,
actually.
KING:
I
know.
JOHN:
There's
no
cure.
It's
--
they're
still
playing
Russian
roulette,
and
this
AIDS
virus
is
so
devious,
it
reinvents
itself
so
many
times,
and
just,
you
know,
it's
having
a
game
with
these
treatments
and
beating
them.
And
there's
no
guarantee
that
if
you
get
HIV
and
you
take
these
triple
therapies,
or
whatever
comes
along
next,
that
they're
going
to
be
successful
for
you.
And
thank
God,
it
has
been
successful...
KING:
Did...
JOHN:
...
for
lots
of
people,
but
it's
not
over.
And
the
danger
is
--
and
it's
happening
--
is
we're
seeing
an
incredibly
big
rise
amongst
young
gay
people,
young
heterosexual
people
as
far
as
catching
HIV,
which
is,
you
know,
in
an
educated
country
like
this
or
in
Britain,
it's
frightening.
KING:
And
in
South
Africa,
it's
horrible.
JOHN:
Well,
I
mean,
throughout
the
rest
of
the
world,
it's
a
pandemic
of
enormous
and
disastrous
proportions.
KING:
Did
you
get
a
lot
of
flack
performing
with
Eminem
at
the
Grammys?
JOHN:
Yes,
I
did.
I
didn't
get...
KING:
Why
did...
JOHN:
...
too
much
flack...
KING:
...
why
did
you
perform?
I
mean
he
--
many
in
the
gay
community
and
the
non-gay...
JOHN:
Yeah.
KING:
...
community
consider
him
homophobic.
JOHN:
Well,
I
didn't.
And
I
listened
to
the
album.
It
made
me
laugh.
It
made
me
gasp.
But
I
thought
it
was
a
brilliant
piece
of
writing.
And
I
knew
that
--
I
do
a
column
for
"Interview"
magazine.
And
I
said
in
my
interview
that
--
in
my
column
--
when
I
reviewed
--
I
recommend
records
--
I
thought
that
it
was
a
work
of
genius,
and
that
I,
you
know,
I
supported
him,
and
I
thought
it
was
brilliant.
And
I
thought
it
was
the
most
exciting
album
I'd
heard
since
Nirvana
"Never
Mind"
in
1990,
or
whenever
that
came
out.
I
knew
I'd
get
a
lot
of
flack,
because,
you
know,
it's
not
everyone's
cup
of
tea,
and
a
lot
of
people
jumped
to
the
conclusion
that
he
was
homophobic.
I
did
a
thing
with
Axl
Rose
many
years
ago
at
the
Freddie
Mercury
tribute
concert,
when
he
was
also
considered
homophobic.
And
I
did
a
couple
of
songs
with
him,
and
he
inducted
me
into
the
Rock
and
Roll
Hall
of
Fame.
And
I
really
got
on
like
a
house
on
fire.
I
wanted
to
--
I
looked
at
--
I
think
you
can
tell
by
your
instincts.
I
looked
at
Eminem
being
interviewed.
I
didn't
think
this
guy
is
an
evil
guy.
And
when
I
was
approached
to
do
this,
I
wanted
to
work
with
one
of
the,
you
know,
the
brightest
and
most
urgent
voices
of
our
age,
no
matter
what
you
think.
But
I
knew
I
was
going
to
get
flack.
And
I
just
--
I
didn't
find
him
to
be
homophobic...
KING:
No.
JOHN:
...
whatsoever.
He
was
charming
to
me.
We
spent
two
or
three
days
together.
I
got
a,
you
know,
the
only
bad
thing
I
got
was
from
GLAD,
you
know,
and,
you
know,
they
have
their
point,
but
also...
KING:
Well...
JOHN:
...
the...
KING:
...
one
would
never
accuse
you
of
not
going
to
the
hunt.
JOHN:
Well,
I
just,
you
know,
I
have
to
say,
I
put
my,
you
know,
if
I
feel
something...
KING:
You
do
it.
JOHN:
...
if
I
thought,
if
he
was
a
homophobic
man
and
was
a
really
evil
person,
I
would
never
have
done
it
in
a
million
years.
I
don't
think
so.
I
think
he's
a
great
kid.
I
like
him
a
lot.
KING:
We'll
take
a
break
and
come
back
and
talk
about
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast"
and
hear
a
couple.
From
the
lips
of
Sir
Elton
John.
Don't
go
away.
KING:
We
thought
it
most
appropriate
on
this
evening
with
Elton
John
to
close
things
out
musically.
And
we
got
some
great
selections
coming.
Tell
me
first,
before
we
hear
the
first
one,
about
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast."
What's
the
theme?
JOHN:
All
the
songs
were
written
in
Los
Angeles
and
performed,
recorded
there,
except
for
the
vocals,
which
I
did
in
England.
I
call
it
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast"
because
that
seemed
appropriate.
I
never
really
made
a
full
album
in
Los
Angeles
before.
Everybody
who
worked
on
the
album
lived
there.
My
band
lived
there.
KING:
Written
with
who?
Who
writes
with
you?
JOHN:
Oh.
Well,
Bernie
Taupin,
who
wrote
all
the
lyrics
and
now
--
originally
came
from
Likenshire,
in
England
and
now,
lives
in
Santa
Inez,
has
a
ranch
--
right
--
he's
cutting
horses,
goes
to
rodeos
and
has
become
the
brown
dirt
cowboy
and
lives
out
that
life.
KING:
All
right.
The
first
one
we're
going
to
hear
you're
going
to
do
is
"I
Want
Love,"
nominated
for
a
Grammy
for
best
male
pop
vocal
for
this
song.
Robert
Downey
Jr.,
by
the
way,
appears
in
the
video
for
this
song.
So,
Elton,
lay
it
on
us.
JOHN:
OK.
(MUSIC,
ELTON
JOHN,
"I
WANT
LOVE")
KING:
Wow.
I
don't
like
to
predict,
but
that's
going
to
win.
The
next
one
we
are
going
to
hear
is
"This
Train
Don't
Stop
There
Anymore."
It's
also
from
the
album
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast".
And
N
Sync's,
my
man,
Justin
Timberlake,
plays
you
in
the
video
version
of
this
set
in
the
1970s.
Sir
Elton,
give
us
"This
Train
Don't
Stop
There
Anymore."
(MUSIC,
ELTON
JOHN,
"THIS
TRAIN
DON'T
STOP
THERE
ANYMORE")
KING:
Wow.
When
we
come
back,
we'll
close
it
out,
this
hour
with
Elton
John
with
an
old
favorite.
By
the
way,
he's
won
both
a
Tony
for
"Aida"
and
an
Oscar
for
"The
Lion
King".
He's
been
knighted
too.
Not
a
bad
career.
Back
with
our
remaining
moments.
Don't
go
away.
KING:
Sir
Elton,
thanks
for
a
great
hour.
We're
going
to
close
it
out
with
you
doing
one
of
my
favorites,
"Your
Song,"
from
the
"One
Night
Only"
greatest
hit
album.
Again,
Elton,
thanks
for
everything.
JOHN:
Thank
you
very
much,
Larry.
It's
been
a
real
pleasure.
Thank
you
very
much.
KING:
The
new
album,
"Songs
From
the
West
Coast."
He's
touring
with
Billy
Joel.
Here
is
our
closing
number
with
Elton
John,
as
we
say
good
night
with
"Your
Song."